Individual Therapy in Cornelius
180 | session
Start reclaiming your calm, clarity, and confidence.
Feeling?
Are you
Overwhelmed by work stress or constantly under pressure to perform?
Like you’re never “enough” for your partner, family, or even yourself?
A tight chest, racing thoughts, or the feeling that you can’t take a full breath?
Frequently irritated, angry, or sad? Emotionally exhausted?
Do you
Want?
To reprioritize yourself and set healthy boundaries?
To feel calmer in your body and mind?
To be better understood in your relationships?
To let go of survival-mode coping and finally feel at peace?
You’re not just a diagnosis or a list of symptoms. Therapy with me is relational, emotion-focused, and insight-driven. While CBT provides the foundation for identifying patterns in thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, our work will go deeper—into the emotional and relational systems that shaped how you show up in the world.
You’ll find that I’m engaged, empathic, and transparent. I’ll gently challenge you when needed and provide structure when things feel chaotic. Together, we’ll build a therapeutic space where you feel seen, safe, and empowered.
My Approach
Together We Will
– Explore your emotional patterns and nervous system responses
– Process old emotional wounds and beliefs that still shape your present
– Strengthen your ability to stay present and regulated in emotionally charged moments
– Learn how to track, understand, and care for your internal parts (IFS)
– Rebuild emotional safety and connection in your relationship with self and others
What Makes This Work Different
Many clients come to me frustrated after trying therapy that focused heavily on coping skills or surface-level symptom reduction. While those have their place, my approach centers on what happens beneath the symptom—what fuels your anxiety, disconnection, or emotional reactivity in the first place.
When Skills Haven’t Worked
Have you tried box breathing, grounding, or cognitive reframing—and felt like nothing changed? That’s not a failure on your part. Often, those tools are offered without first creating emotional safety or addressing what’s driving the distress.
In our work, we’ll focus on learning how to use skills while emotionally activated, not just when things are calm. That includes helping your brain shift from fight-or-flight mode (amygdala activation) back into connection, reason, and regulation (prefrontal cortex functioning).
Emotional Regulation and Attachment Wounds
You may have internalized messages that strong emotions are unsafe, weak, or even dangerous. Over time, these messages create emotional habits—like shutting down, over-functioning, or pushing people away.
Our work will gently interrupt these patterns. We’ll create a space where emotions become information, not threats. You’ll learn how to move through fear, shame, and anger with more self-compassion and agency.
We’ll also explore how your early relationships may still influence how you feel in conflict, intimacy, or vulnerability today. Using elements of IFS, EFT, and psychoanalytic insight, we can begin to map out how these past experiences show up in present struggles—and how to shift them.
Maladaptive Coping Patterns
Have you ever thought, “I was just trying to help… why did that go so badly?”
Often, our efforts to feel safe—emotionally or relationally—have unintended consequences. You may withdraw, overanalyze, pursue connection intensely, or suppress emotion altogether.
These strategies made sense once. But they may now create pain, misunderstanding, or disconnection. Therapy helps untangle these reactions so you can move from automatic survival into intentional living.
What You’ll Gain
Working together, you can expect to:
– Develop more clarity and language for your emotional experience
– Shift from reactive to responsive
– Improve boundaries without guilt
– Strengthen your internal sense of calm and confidence
– Reconnect to yourself and the people who matter most
So, where do we begin?
We’ll start by exploring what matters most to you—what’s bringing you to therapy now and what you hope to change. From there, we’ll move at your pace, building the kind of therapeutic relationship that helps you feel safe enough to grow.
You don’t have to navigate this alone.